The invisible currents between people
What connects us
Have you ever fallen in love with someone right at first
sight? Or simply detested someone simply trespassing by you. or if not such
strong emotions, still what binds us to certain souls yet prevent us from
connecting with others? How do few people easily bond with so many, yet others
either can’t or don’t want to. What’s the glue between relations?
Aura connection, soul connection or simply the fact that you
like or dislike someone with or without any reason! - What could be the
connecting factor here? Of course, the liking or disliking between two
individuals can be credited to certain attributes or qualities, even looks or
other sensory triggers!
But the most significant of all as per my analysis is the
energetic connection amidst us all. And it is not only just between people.
Even non-living things, celestial objects, stars and planets, people, animals,
insects, birds, sand particles, water droplets, ad-infinitum! We all carry a
certain energy and that becomes our unseen
signature/entity/attribute/personality.
What is this Energy?
There be people who enter a room and fill it with life
energy! As if they be their own Sun – ever emitting love and light. And then,
then be people who carry a cloud of grief upon their head. Whatever be the
reason for it. Such emotions and energies can be temporary. Yet each and
everyone has a certain energy or frequency that stays like their impression.
Same like our thumb prints. Only these be invisible and non-material.
Like an Amethyst crystal would always be healing. That’s its
nature. A rose quarts would attract unconditional love. A clear quartz would
amplify whatever energy one charges it with. People too be the same. Few are
healing. Few filled with love; few simply amplify their environment or people
they come in contact with.
And wilderness too behaves the same way. Few animals are
wild. Few are innocent and become preys. Few remain wild. Few can be tamed. Same
like people. Yet all this is but generally speaking.
What creates individual energies?
Each and every one of us carries a unique energy to us. Even
if the same set of emotions like love, hate, anger, grief, disgust etc. have
been available to all of us – from ever, for ever! The emotions be the same.
But in which intensity and with which permutation and combination – that makes
each person a unique energy.
And it is not just emotions. There be so many factors to it.
Past life karmas, present life upbringing, life choices, friends, environment,
life experiences, traumas, achievements, life purpose, life goals, soul
contracts, various agreements before birth including twin flame connections, yuga
one is born in, world’s own cycle, collective evolution, individual evolution –
numerous factors contribute to an individual become a certain energy or having
a particular frequency that may or may not evolve – though that’s the nature of
it!
There be people who simply remain the same through out life.
They eat, sleep, repeat – consume whatever possible and drag on their life like
that. Without ever bothering about existential questions or spiritually
evolving or even being aware about those things.
Then there are people who actively work upon either society
or themselves and contribute to individual or collective evolution.
There are souls who get birth to undergo supreme traumas to
gain as much of spiritual flight – if not in that then the next birth. And
that’s how they contribute to the collective.
There be karmic journeys of souls – including various
emotions, interactions, good or bad connections!
Regardless what kind of life one lives or is born to live;
we can draw a conclusion that even if we all are humans; yet we all are unique
in terms of our energy!
There be people born to do something phenomenal. There are
people who remain the background characters in a video game – creating the vibe
of a setting. There are heroes and criminals, gods and demons, tragedies and
comedies and in today’s time – various shades of grey!
And still, each shade is unique, each frequency is
different! Not to judge which is better or worst. Each number has its own role
in the number system. Each frequency has its unique contribution to the
collective evolution of consciousness! Yet understanding these energies gives
us a better perspective upon our purpose in life and helps us in interacting
better with others!
Mathematical functionalities
In previous articles, I have already discussed about – how
each of us carries a unique numbered frequency and how we connect or resonate
with others based upon the mathematical possibilities of multiplication or
division or categorisation like odd or even numbers or prime numbers. The same
way numbers interact; likewise do people - in terms of gaining experiences,
lessons, getting inspirations from or learning from others!
And of course, people at the same wave length or sharing the
same number frequence would immediately connect better to create a synergy as
compared to those who either are from different categories or can’t even share
a mathematical functioning in terms of frequency.
Intuitive connections
Another common link between us all is intuition - the chords
of which are managed by collective consciousness from the ‘fifth dimension’.
This too I have discussed earlier. But here, we can focus upon how and why it
is relevant.
The ‘Bhrahman’ or consciousness keeps on reminiscing upon
the ways and processing of the collective energies of the world. It not only
considers the actual happenings but also the thoughts that may or may not
happen. It has clear access to dreams, to sub-conscious, to people’s
aspirations, dreams and even fears!
There are multiple processes happening at that realm. On one
hand, there is this universal journey of energy that drives the collective
based upon what should be the right follow up step in the evolution of the
world. It can bring revolutions, can upturn power dynamics, can emphasise upon
various issues or species and bring changes that impact the energy of the
entire earth at large.
World wars, patriarchy, matriarchy, various institutions
like marriage and religions, transformations in civilisations, evolution is
various art forms, introduction and change in tools or technology, people
meditating at large, people finishing a certain breed of humans in mass etc. –
can all be ultimately accredited to collective consciousness – that propagated,
assisted, led, even culminated – all these functionalities if, when and
wherever required.
In a way, our intuition is an invisible network of
connection with everyone around including the celestial, the super natural, the
ethereal, the divine, the elemental and whatever is seen or unseen yet existing
in universal vicinity!
So, when a good person is actually bereft of all help, yet
takes a first step seeking divine assistance, it is this intuition that threads
a certain individual to go at a particular time and give that person a lift or
help of some kind. It is this intuition that connects yet another relevant connection
to lift the person’s spirits up and help him/her reach the next step of safety
and hope and maybe even something that offers a better scope.
Numerous artists have gained overnight success thanks to
this secret energetic network. Numerous deserving people have really got help
even if they didn’t know a single soul but had a deep connection unknowingly to
this intuitive whole.
When people claim that their God walks beside them and
therefore, they don’t need to rely upon people – it is this network that they
have access to. because their conscious is pure and they ask directly from
cosmos. Their intuition then guides them and takes them exactly where they are
meant to be and helps them stay away from all harms and duplicities.
It is this intuition that helps soul-mates connect at a
place and time when they be at the same wave length and are meant to teach each
other some lesson or elevate the other.
It is this intuition that creates a network of incidents
that gain momentum eventually creating a revolution amidst a generation or a connection
turning into a relation or a person realizing the hidden truth beyond facades
of lifetime lies and so much more.
Intuition therefore has a lot to do with how people interact
and connect at various phases, places, timelines of their loves!
Power dynamics and social constructs
Another significant attribute to people connecting or
disconnecting can be the society in which a set of individuals live.
Most of the individuals are rather weak soul and lack the
confidence to both stand up for themselves or others. They often follow mob
mentality. So, if everyone else is hating upon a certain individual, then they
too would decide to hate that person; without even giving them a benefit of
doubt or forming their own opinions about that person by getting to know
him/her.
Humans are social animals and most of them rather follow
power and lack the guts required to figure out their own truths or stand up for
what seems correct to them.
And one may have solid opinions or even courage to support
an outcast, yet the power dynamics or individual circumstances may still
restrict their behaviour to become their most authentic self.
Like a child may love dogs or cats immensely and may eve
have the ability and empathy to take care of a pet. But the family system can
be so that they are not allowed to have one. So until they step out of that
home or power dynamic; they can’t really have that pet. The choices become a
parent and a pet. That’s a dubious choice. One can’t really choose an animal
over a family member.
And that is but an example. That can be allied to a man
seeking a wife from some other caste or section of society. That can be a
daughter having a unique lifestyle or a rebellious personality.
Lucifer too had to step out of Heaven when he failed to
follow each and every rule of God. Not saying who was right or wrong. That’s
but mythology.
However, there are still power dynamics that exist and massively
impact connections. And so does the society.
People connect by gossiping against someone. People connect
by standing up for something. The glue can be made of love or hate or any
strong feeling about a certain aspect. The righteousness of the emotion is not
the point here. The point is the existence of that force that connects people.
Here it is politics or society or an emotion that creates mob mentality or even
groups or categories!
Religious groups or spiritual organisations too can be
commoderated under the same observation. People are ready to die or kill for
what their leaders tell them to. these energies may or may not be agreed with
or originate from their real authentic self. But they still function and
totally impact the conduct of people with other people.
Art & Culture
Another interesting interaction that happens amidst humans
is through art. May it be paintings or music or whatever form of art. The
impact of the art may not be seen but can be experienced and contains massive
power to make people behave or interact or connect or disconnect a certain way.
Porn industry thrives upon this principle. It creates the
energy of lust. While those succumbed to based emotions would totally get
pleasure out of them, yet those who prefer to have depth in their connections
and not consider other humans as mere flesh – may get disgusted by the
superficiality of that shown. Whatever be the reaction; but it totally generates
an energy that may arouse others and even become a catalyst to people’s
attitude towards others (say rapes can increase, marriages can suffer with inauthentic
expectation, people may go for plastic surgeries and bodily alterations to meet
those unnatural standards); or else, they may make the authentic souls feel
disgust with mere bodies gaining so much of value and they would then go deeper
into their souls and seek meaningful connections.
Music can also be considered similarly. There have been
musicians powerful enough to not just sway people across languages and borders
with their lyrics or tunes; but they have also managed to create waves of
transforming emotions – may it be love, or grief or awareness or realizations.
World has cried with few songs, world has felt depth of romance with others.
World has felt the limits of hell with traumatized musicians; world has
travelled with free souled ones.
There have been music genres of all kinds. Country can take
one to simplicity, blues can touch one’s grief or growth, metal can empower or
become solace for those seeking silence in chaos, sufi can inspire mystics, pop
can share contemporary ideas and so on. Whatever be the genre, yet music for
sure impacts humans immensely. It can build or destroy not just a vibe but a
place, not just an individual consciousness but can also impact the collective.
Sound energy though can’t be seen but it has such deep
impact upon our energies. Come to think of it, every tiny particle of earth has
its own sound to it. And so do humans.
We may fall in love with someone just by their voice. We may
find someone extremely intolerable just because of their voice. Our voice is
the voice of our soul. It reflects our individual energy.
And music at large impacts the collective energy.
Food can also be yet another art form that connects people with
their culture or familiarity of home or nostalgia of a certain place or phase
of their life. How when one eats an authentic dish from their culture, it takes
them back to their childhood self, or that feeling of home or feeling of taken
care of.
How a certain coffee of a certain brand always becomes a
stress relief as the first time you had it, that’s the feeling you could have
had because of then good circumstances.
Food for sure has its therapeutic effect and can make or
break someone’s day or spirit.
That’s why prisoners are given tasteless food to in a way
punish them by restricting their access to flavours and tastes and therefore
life!
People eat when they feel depressed. People eat when they
are happy. People share drinks to connect, to party. People share so much of
their life – just based upon foods and drinks.
Food is not just a medium to survive. It becomes an
invisible bond to connect people. It’s another art form that impacts humans and
connects or disconnect them.
A vegetarian may not want to partner up with a person having
non-vegetarian preferences. A vegan would find even a vegetarian disgusting.
Yet, two people with sweet-tooth would love to share not just one evening but
every second evening with a frothy cup of coffee and a choice of their
favourite sweet delicacy.
Ethnicity
At times its not even food preferences or music tastes. At
times it can be as basic as belonging to the same country or village; or
sharing the same language.
Ask a person living
in a foreign land for many years who suddenly meets with someone from his
motherland. He won’t even bother about the other’s tastes and preferences. Just
the simple fact that he shares the same roots would immediately connect the
two.
The energetic connection would be immediate without them
needing to really know particulars about each other or having common areas of
interest.
Sexual Tension
Another significant tangent of human connection be totally
based upon sexual energy that though is primitive yet extremely functional.
Regardless of sex or gender, those with feminine energy naturally
receive and those with masculine energy totally know how to be chivalrous and
give. And though humans have built the entire capitalistic society based upon
showcasing females as the ones attracting and males as those who gaze yet if we
really dive deep into both nature and real functioning of attraction then it is
masculine energy that stays stable and attracts with its various attributes and
feminine energy that gets emotional and attracted and persuaded or dissuaded by
those attributes.
Again, it has nothing to do with whether you are a male or a
female. Masculine energy, same like Shiva is neutral. Is like a mountain –
stable. Feminine energy like Skakti is powerful, has emotional intensities;
flows like river and has all ups and downs in its propensity.
And same like nature, humans too are built in a way where
there is naturally a sexual chemistry between masculine and feminine energies –
regardless of your sexuality or preferences.
Even in homosexuals, there is one that be more masculine and
another that behaves more feminine. And in heterosexuals too, one there is of
course standard attraction between a male and a female; yet even there, there
can be variations. A more feminine male would tend to be attracted to a more
masculine female and vice-verse.
How people relate,
whom do they choose, what do they really feel – is for another discussion;
however, the sexual energy for sure is super powerful – not just as an energy
impacting interactions amidst people but also as the driving force of society
or individuals.
A young female may get more attention and better treatment
than an old one while a basic shopping spree. A good-looking man may attract
more attention and female favours than an average looking one.
And it is not only about looks or riches or personality or
other attributes. Sexual energy in itself is a different force. There are
people who just have a way with attracting others’ interest. They know how to
tap in - into not just their own sexuality but also arouse something in the
other.
And that force is so basic and so natural that humans don’t
even realise it over-powering their actions or decisions.
Deodorant ads therefore telecast a herd of females flocking
over a male after he has used their product. A cold-drink company telecasts the
lips of an actress with the residual of the last drop of their drink. And a
certain force subtly rises in an average consumer wishing for the same that
they see. And that is simply advertising agency brainwashing you!
What about how it functions in our society – in everyday, with
us not even realising it often times.
How teenage girls talk in a different voice when interacting
with boys. How an erotic female voice has more ability to sell a tele-caller
life insurance policy. How, the perfume used by someone you were once intimate
with may make you feel immediately attracted to someone else who may be using
the same brand.
The sexual tension between different genders or sexes or
individuals or even at the level of collective – is a massive force that can
even be manipulated, or regardless of that, it simply flows with or without us
knowing.
Presence of a single woman in a flat of bachelor men can
bring massive changes in them and their lifestyle without even her doing
anything or actually getting intimate with anyone.
A single male’s presence in a group of females can change
their entire topic of conversations and the way they talk or feel about
themselves or others.
It is this sexual force that tantra taps into and manifests
crazy powers for themselves. It is this force that is so powerful that when it
is practiced biologically, it creates life; when it is practiced spiritually,
it impacts life and if it is practiced socially, it becomes life.
Karmic Connections
Then there are Karmic bonds to consider. It is believed that
souls keep on taking births together or around until their karmas get entirely
cleansed or balanced. Like if A misbehaved with B, then B would consciously or
unconsciously would get a chance to either forgive or let or even misbehave with
A - in either the same birth or
next or some other birth in some way, shape or form.
Likewise with love or hate connections. Say if A loved B
immensely in one birth, then in another birth they may share a parent child
bond. Or even if they hated each other, even then, they may become a child or a
parent with abusive tendencies.
And that’s how even friendships get developed. Or office
colleagues. Or bullies. These are all our own karmas that we balance off in one
or other births.
Every energy gets balanced in cosmos.
And each has to account for his or her karmas in one way or
other. So, the reason that you may suddenly get obsessed with someone may not
have anything to do with his/her current attributes. It can be past life love
connection.
That’s how each individual evolves and grows, by balancing
karmas, by knowing what is better, by finishing unfinished emotions; ultimately
completing each cycle of energy or connection and finally contributing to the
collective evolution of consciousness!
Trauma Bonds
And it is not just our karmas but also emotional frequency
or experiences that impact whom we attract or get attracted to – in our life.
For example, a person who has experienced many bullies in his/her life – would
keep on getting more bullies or similar situations until the person evolves and
faces the root cause of it all and stands up for himself or herself or figures
out a way to not be bullied anymore.
A person with serious abandonment issues will keep on
meeting with people who would trigger the same abandonment feeling in him/her
until the person learn self-love and rather becomes so solid in substance that
people’s presence or absence does not bother him/her anymore. Only then that
people would willingly love to be along as it would be a connection not based
on need but want.
Many a times, we also feel solace with people who have
undergone traumas similar to us. In many countries or branches of psychology, Trauma
survivors therefore form groups and simply share their own experiences and
guide each other about how to be stronger.
Even partners with similar childhood traumas have more scope
of a relationship as while being together, they tend to not just be more
empathetic towards each other’s needs but they heal the other’s childhood
versions as they themselves get healed with finally the right kind of love that
they receive.
Mirror images
It is not just similar traumas that connect us. It can even
be the certain frequency we buzz at – at a particular phase of our life.
Buddhism believes that nothing that we see is actually real.
That whatever is inside is reflected outside and vice-verse.
So, if you are conflicted inside, you may either spectate
many conflicts outside amidst other people or you may even find yourself
arguing more or fighting with others.
And if you are feeling love then you would be given more and
more situations to share your compassion and love. So external reality either
becomes a mirror to your inner emotions or level of consciousness or else it
becomes an amplifier of the same; until you see or learn what you need to
experience and make the required changes in yourself.
If you feel right inside, then you would get more chances to
do right outside or bring righteousness to the world. If you feel something is
wrong inside, then you would meet similar experiences outside until you reach
the root of it and make it right.
Many trauma survivors don’t even know about their traumas
until they see someone else undergoing the same or finally giving voice to it
or an outsider does the same to them and not a family member this time and they
feel something entirely wrong about it. And finally, that they realise the
immensity of the trauma they had been undergoing. Ask a person born in a
narcissistic household and they would be the epitome of such cases.
Other forces
Apart from aforesaid possibilities, people do connect at so
many other levels as well.
It can be ethereal where spirit guides gently nudge us
towards certain individuals who be good for our growth.
It can be telepathic where our loved ones miss us so
immensely that we just connect to them and either get their dreams or miss them
as well.
It can be ancestral where their spirits still protect and
guide us even if from a realm unknown and unseen by us.
It can be divine intervening and taking us to those who are
right for us and may become a catalyst in our growth.
It can be habits – good or bad – that make us interact or
connect with certain souls more as they share the same habits or even
interests.
It can be our very destiny that demands us to impact or be
impacted by chosen souls to bring a change in the collective.
Whatever be the force or reason. Yet, this for sure can be
concluded; that we do communicate even without words. And that, there is an
invisible energy that flows between people. May it be sexual or intuitive,
telepathic or karmic. May it be a soul bond or social, cultural or interactive.
It can be intellectual curiosity. It can be other worldly.
How ever that we interact, but it is never just that! The
subtle flows that process our emotions and communications and interactions with
each other goes way deeper and is simply multi-dimensional.

No comments:
Post a Comment